Thread for those looking for a bit of support

Sandy_Leca24

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My daughters and I watch several programmes together so I record them and when they come home during holidays, we binge watch them together. None of us cheat and watch them separately 🤣 My youngest went to uni this week and my house is going to be far too quiet when my eldest goes back. I'm planning a lot of decorating, dog walking, gardening etc to try to keep myself busy, with a lot of loud music to combat the quiet.
That’s such a good idea cos the floodgates opened today when I heard that the new bake off season is starting and that along with masterchef used to be “our” thing🥹
 

NatMC

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Well it was my turn today and honestly? I get why they say it feels like a form of grief. Just the absence of her energy, her presence in the house is agonising. I’m wondering if the crying will ever stop x
 

Sandy_Leca24

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Well it was my turn today and honestly? I get why they say it feels like a form of grief. Just the absence of her energy, her presence in the house is agonising. I’m wondering if the crying will ever stop x
Oh I absolutely hear you and the good news is yes the crying will stop … the minute you start feeling her happiness and reminding yourself that you’ve launched your bird now to fly and live a new happy time in her life, making new connections and memories … eventually it starts feeling like this is the new norm! I cried for 4 days solid and today, a week in, I look back and feel happy that she’s had a great week yet anxious for lectures starting tomorrow and just wanna give her a hug to say good luck but I remind myself that she’s gotten through week one and she’s gonna get through it all 🫶🏼 Hang in there 🎀 A friend of mine sent me this image the other day which I have as my desktop wallpaper and in my brain on repeat ✨ So, you’ve got this mama🌷🌷🌷
 

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gillc

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Im so emotional and really can't handle this separation
I new it would b hard but woo I didnt relise it was gona b this hard, I mean it feels like a dagger has bin stabbed into my chest an constantly being twisted 😭😭😭
shes my only child an we dropped her of on sun an its now wed an holy mo I want her back home ( I don't want her to giv up her dream as I am happy an so proud of her but yes im gona b honest... for my own selfishness I want her back home I want things to go back to the way they were b4) does anyone else feel like this ???
Pls say im not the only one who feels like this
I keep hearing ppl saying do a self care etc but im not ready for that yet
Its so horrible her not being here an me not hearing her in the bedroom or anypart of the flat tbh an just knowing she was here wiv me was enough for me to feel comfort
They say u can call but unfortunately she ďoesnt do that very much an I don't want to sound like a pest, so i won't call her but on the few occasions we hav chatted its bin lovely,
but not long later Im back to square 1

IM SO SCARED IVE LOST HER FOR FOREVER

As she seems so happy (wich I am happy abt for her but again not for myself) an i don't hear from her that much so that doesn't help
Sorry for the long rant
How are you doing now? I trying to step back from being in his in box every few minutes. If I get panicky and ask if he's ok he does respond. He's also managed to get himself up for morning lectures but on the other side he's managed to lock himself out of his room twice on consecutive days 🙄
 
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